Meet Neil

How I love and live my life


I love cooking for myself, I love kitchens, and I love eating what feels good to me, I really love food.  I love putting my own energy into my food and taking care of myself.

I love adventure, being outside, being alone, playing with my son, being with my guy friends, Chi Gong, exploring intimacy with women, travel, pushing my edges, studying, speaking Spanish, Silversmithing, and making Pottery.

I love studying and learning especially about the ground underneath my feet, the inner workings of our bodies, all the songs of the IChing, Classical Chinese Medicine, and so on…

I value my freedom….

Meet Quinn

Quinn is my 9-year old son and his presence in my Life has caused me to level-up in myself as a Man with my heart open to the World.
Quinn is the artist, the one who drew my logo….

He’s also the entrepreneur…

“For $60 Quinn will provide his best drawing for a logo for Dad’s Guiding Business.” — Agreement signed between Dad and Quinn…

Quinn is for hire if you would like him to design, invent, or make something for you that will turn your head inside out and dazzle your heart. (Email Quinn directly if you have a job that matches his talents.)

One day Quinn, age 8 at the time, and I were at the dining table and I was describing “Dark Matter” and how neutrinos have mass, move extremely fast, are penetrating through us in every moment, and it’s impossible to catch them. As well as, how some scientists have won the Nobel Prize attempting to prove they are there; but, no one has ever caught one.

“How much is the Nobel Prize worth?”, Quinn asked.

“About a million dollars,” I said.

“Let’s go to the hardware store and build a neutrino catcher today, I know what I need. I want to get it made by the end of the weekend so we can collect our prize money,” stated Quinn quite matter-of-factly.

“Ok lets make a list, what do you need?” I instantly replied and then we went off gathering everything and then Quinn went and caught a neutrino…

This is my acknowledgement section.


Quinn inspired me to make this website and pursue my on-purpose essence and follow Life uncompromisingly.

I love Quinn.

This whole website is a love letter to him,

to my dedication to the health of our larger community,

and my unwavering commitment to feed that Great Divine Feminine Goddess.


(And yes, Quinn gave me his permission to use his photograph and this story on this website.)